Welcome Friends!
Hi, I'm Nicole. I'm glad you stopped by.
Quick run down about who I am...
I am a Mom. Step-Mom. Wife to my best friend. Christian. Blended Family. 36. SAHM. WAHM. Writer. Scrapbooker. Close to My Heart Consultant. Creative. Bookworm. Playful at heart. Midwest girl.
Loves scrapbooking, cooking & baking, photography, horseback riding, words, living frugal, animals, sushi, chocolate, coffee and walks in nature.
Strongly dislikes spiders, Brussels sprouts, cleaning and messes. Ironic eh?
If you need to contact me for any reason, please email me at nicole (at) nicolehumphrey (dot) net.




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By Nicole Humphrey Cook
My boyfriend would kill me if he read that title. LOL
My kids and I, moved in with him and his three girls two months ago today. It was only a matter of time before we did that – it was just time to begin blending. I was staying there several times a week (Monday-Thursday), because he works nights, and needed someone to watch his girls. I don’t cost money. *giggle*
Anyway, so now, he has a built in babysitter. He keeps getting mad at me, because I say that. I don’t really mean it. I know he asked me to move in with him, because he wants me here with him. I just think it’s funny to get him all riled up like that.
I’m a nut job anyway. I love going out together – all of us – one big old happy family. We get stares and the stupid people that constantly ask “Are they all yours?” Hell yeah they are! And I’m proud of it. I barely ever correct anyone. It just seems like such a silly question to ask. I had a friend growing up that had 12 siblings! All from the same two parents! Why is five such a big deal?
Anyway, so this babysitter needs to get back to work. I’m so happy I could scream!
By Nicole Humphrey Cook
Ok, in the previous article Beginning a Writer’s Resume – Part One, we took a look at the first three sections of your writer’s resume. Now we need to go past that.
WORK HISTORY:
Your work history might have absolutely nothing to do with the job you are seeking or with your writing at all. You still need to include it. It’s important for a potential employer to see that you have had some type of employment and that you are dependable, reliable and well….”employable”.
So you are probably wondering how this differs from a regular resume with job history listings. After all, didn’t I tell you before that this is a skills based writers resume? Yes, I did. And this is how they differ in this section.
First, these need to be quick little tid bits from each job. You are not looking to list everything you would in a normal job history. You need to include your job title, the dates you were with the company, where it’s located and a contact number. You should include your duties but summarize – try to keep it below 2 to 3 lines.
For most writer’s they have been self-employed as a freelance writer for some period of time. This needs to be the very first listing in this section. This will also help to explain any gaps in your employment history.
Here is an example of this section:
Freelance Writer – March 1998 to present
St. Louis, Missouri
Senior Blogger at Families.com for scrapbooking and frugal living articles, guest spot articles on adoption, food, single parenting and travel. Content Producer at Associated Content (see attachments for website information), published eight articles in Scrapbooker America, regular article contributor to Frugal Living Sunshine Publication. (see attachments for copies).
Office Manager – September 2004 to May 2006
Technical Ultrasound
St. Louis, Missouri; Jason Fellows – (555)123-4567
Processed all client paperwork, established and organized complete filing system, created and maintained employer website, increased client base by more than 75% in five months, created and marketed advertising media
Preschool Director – January 2000 to September 2004
The Hillside Academy
St. Louis, Missouri; Stephanie Huewitt – (555)123-4567
Created, Coordinated and Established developmental programs appropriate for preschool age children, maintained constant state ratio, processed all paperwork, designed full curriculum, created and maintained employer website, created and marketed advertising media
I think it goes without saying, that if you can find any duty you were required to do in any job that you have held that relates to your writing, by all means LIST IT! Even if it is something as simple as writing up a monthly newsletter, or contributing to one.
*Do not list reasons for leaving prior jobs. And do not include any other negative information, about yourself or the employers. This sends a less than desireable message to potential employers.
EDUCATION:
Next step to include is education. Basically this is the same as a regular resume, and should look no different on your writer’s resume, with the exception that this is a good location to include any extra trainings such as vocational training, on-the-job training, online courses that are relevant to the job you are seeking, workshops, classes, etc.
If you have spent any time at all perusing the writing and editorial jobs in your local paper, you will probably notice that many of them ask for a degree in writing (e.g., journalism, English, etc.).
This is not the time to give up. So maybe you don’t have one. A lot of companies are more than happy accept experience in lieu of formal education, especially when it’s a large amount of experience. So by all means, quit panicking and apply anyway. You didn’t have the job before, so what do you have to lose?
AWARDS AND MEMBERSHIPS
You may be brand new to the whole field of writing, so perhaps you have nothing to include under this section. Leave it off the writers resume. However, this section is benificial to anyone who has received any awards relating to writing and editing. If you are a member of any writing or editorial societies, guilds or organizations, list those as well.
Well, you are done! If you have any other tips and suggestions, please feel free to share them in the comments field Thanks!
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By Nicole Humphrey Cook
Ok, I have spent the past couple of days researching the heck out of writer’s resumes and trying to figure out how to create mine. So I thought I would walk you all through the steps. Maybe it will help someone who doesn’t know what they are doing either.
CREDENTIALS:
It’s always best to start with your credentials. Why? Because a writers resume lists skills rather than a job history. Instead of listing jobs that you have had, you are going to be listing your skills and qualifications. So you will begin with something simple:
Name, address, telephone, fax, e-mail, URL
Something like this:
Nicole Humphrey
123 Writers Road. · Hometown, MO 12345
(555) 123-4567 · (555) 123-4568 (fax) · youremail@yourisp.net
My Writing Website· http://www.scribblesnscraps.com/
If you are placing this on a website, having your name in big letters isn’t as important as when you are using a printed resume. When you use a printed writers resume, you will want to center the entire thing, place your name in a larger font size, with the rest of the information about a font size or two smaller.
OBJECTIVES:
The next section you will begin working on, is actually optional. If you want to list your objectives, that’s fine but it needs to stay at only two lines or less. You don’t want to overwhelm anyone, and typically someone looking at a writers resume is not looking at your objectives like they would if this was a job history based job. So, for anyone curious, I chose to leave off the objectives on my printed writers resume.
QUALIFICATIONS:
Here is the most important part of the entire writers resume. Your qualifications. You may wish to call this section Qualifications, or change it to something else, perhaps Writing Experience, or if you do copyrighting or editing, perhaps Editing Experience or Copyright Experience, etc.
So what exactly do you list here? Great question. In this section you will want to list each type of skill that is relevant to your writing experience and relevant to the job you desire.
Here are several examples I found while researching:
Writing: Professional writer for 6 years, with experience in content writing, newspaper, small publication and business writing. Author of 208 published articles in 26 national publications; co-author of two books; author of three book chapters. Winner of the 2003 “best article” award from the Good Authors’ Association. (See attached publications list for details.)
Editing: Editor of three electronic newsletters, various corporate and business materials (including reports, white papers, and brochures) and one organizational newsletter. Experienced in copyediting, content editing, and proofreading.
Business and Corporate Writing: Developer, writer, editor and designer of a wide range of business materials, including brochures, newsletters, and annual reports. Clients include… (list all clients here)
Internet, HTML, and Desktop Publishing: Webmaster for Scribbles N Scraps website(http://www.scribblesnscraps.com). Familiar with HTML, VTML, and java. Familiar with several desktop publishing programs for both electronic and print publishing, including (list all programs you are familiar with).
You can also include anything else you might feel is relevant. Including attachments and samples, is almost a given for a writer’s resume, so do not hesitate to include them.
Part Two of this article can be found……here.
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By Nicole Humphrey Cook
Post pulled from the other blog, so future blog posts make sense and so we could also discuss Ex’s
Do you have someone in your life, that is apparently so miserable, that they want everyone else to be?
Yeah, me too. He’s my ex husband.
He’s spent the past couple of years since I left him and we got divorced, trying to sabotage the heck out of everything I do. I am not sure why.
My boss recently called me to tell me that he emailed her (and then she requested a phone call with him), saying that I was plagiarizing. Pretty tall accusation, don’t you think?
Jealous much?
I don’t know what the purpose of that is, because he had absolutely NO proof to back it up, and in addition, he knows I can write. Though he never really took the time to read any of it. But still.
Anyway, so that was fun. Thankfully, my boss and I are close, and she knew he was just “blowing smoke” to quote her. We laughed about it, actually. She is a former cop, so she’s seen it all. She knew it was just a “disgruntled ex, trying to cause trouble.” Thank goodness she knows me!
Anyway, it’s always fun when you have these things go on. My boss (ex cop) said I should file a deflamation of character law suit, but I don’t really feel like it. LOL I really don’t. I could care less what he does, and how he lives his life.
Does he have nothing better to do than mess with mine? Because my kids know what he did, they were there when I got the phone call. A little hard to hide at that point. Does he think that is winning him brownie points?
I think not.
Anyway, I think he should just focus on his new wife, her pregnancy and their little boy, and stop worrying about me all the time. It would probably cause a lot less stress in his life. LOL
So what do you all think?
By Nicole Humphrey Cook
When faced with the challenge of creating my own personal writer’s resume, I panicked a little. In fact, I probably panicked a lot.
Sure, I have a regular resume. In fact, I have two. One for any administrative positions I apply for, because I have experience as an Office Manager and one for a teaching position, as I was a preschool teacher for over ten years of my life.
But my current dilemma was as a freelance writer. I’m not looking for a “day job” but I am looking for more writing jobs or possibly a position in the writing or publishing business.
If you’re a freelancer, chances are that you
(a) work from home, and
(b) your employment history (current or former) may have little relationship to your writing skills.
So what do you do about that?
When you know you have the skills to handle a regular writing or editorial position, it becomes a challenge to prove it. So how do you convince an employer?
In a typical freelance writing situation, you will want to consider developing a “skills” resume instead.
A Skills resume is a perfectly acceptable alternative to the chronological resume, enabling you to focus on the skills and experience that are directly relevant to the job for which you’re applying.
Next entry…getting started.
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By Nicole Humphrey Cook
Hey happy writer’s – I stumbled across a thought today.
I don’t have a writer’s resume – do you?
If you do, what the heck do you put on it? I did extensive research on the whole thing trying to figure out how to list the articles I’ve written.
I’ve also ghost written several things – where someone else bought the full rights. I do however, still have the originals. Can we use those? And if we do, do we just make a separate section for “ghost written” material?
I am going to continue to do research and create a writer’s resume. I will detail my findings here and hopefully you will find it useful.
And hey, if you do have one – tell me you have on in the comments field, so we can chat back and forth. I’d love to see yours.
The start of mine (with absolutely nothing there yet) is here:
http://www.geocities.com/simplywriting/
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By Nicole Humphrey Cook
Do you ever wonder why things happen the way they do?
I’ll be the first to admit, I was so bad about this. Everytime something happened I had to know why it happened and if I couldn’t control it somehow, I went nuts.
And then something happened. I opened my eyes and noticed that God was there. He always had been. I just had to learn to live my life according to what He wanted for me.
Once I passed that point, it changed a lot of who I was.
Stopping to thank God for something wonderful in my life is like second nature to me.
I am so incredibly blessed.
I am a Christian with God ever present in my life.
I have two beautiful children (Rye and Brie) who love me unconditionally, and are always holding my hand and I believe they will forever.
I have a boyfriend (Michael) who loves me very much, and with whom I could not imagine a day on this earth without. He supports and encourages me in everything I do.
He has, (but I am blessed to have in my heart), three gorgeous, wonderful, intelligent daughters (Nessa, Jess and Mel). Each with a special personality, and a uniqueness one can only find in that child. I am truly blessed to be in their lives.
I have the most amazing church family in the world. Fellowship Church has been honestly a major part of who I’ve become. I am truly thankful for my best friend for bringing me there.
And of course, I have two of the best girl friends in the world (Cyndi and Andrea), amongst several other neat friends, whom I’m blessed to have (Daria, Shannon, Carolyn, Kerry, Erin, Michelle). And of course my best friend who I believe I mentioned up above (Michael).
We have food on our table, a roof over our heads, and many other gifts, that people take for granted.
I am so thankful that I am who I am, and that all the things I have been through in my life, have shaped who I am today. I wouldn’t take one moment away and change anything.
So today, on this beautiful Sunday afternoon, I’m just especially happy and thankful for the goodness in my life.
I ask Jesus to just lift up my family and keep us safe and together. I ask Him to bless my friends and family the way He has blessed me. I also ask for patience in life’s stresses, and the same for my friends.
In His Name……
By Nicole Humphrey Cook
We got the best news on Friday afternoon. I couldn’t have been more excited to learn about it.
He’s finally divorced! After all this damn time, it’s just finally over. I’m so happy about that. It’s simply a calming, almost surreal happiness.
Of course, the only way we knew is because we pulled it up online and it showed that his disposition date was July 12, 2006. So as of last Wednesday, he’s officially single.
But wait gals, before you think he’s someone you can have – HECK NO!! He’s mine!
I just couldn’t be happier that our happy family of seven can move on and work to become as one.
So thank you everyone, for the prayers, and thoughts. Thank you for supporting him during all of this.
It’s a true blessing – albeit disguised as a divorce decree, but it is still…..
By Nicole Humphrey Cook
Ok, I always love these tags and meme’s people send out. I had to do this one. It was a challenge on someone elses blog I came across and thought it was funny. However, it’s all true – so buckle up and please don’t be angry because I did it. I thought it might bring a chuckle from some other mom’s!
Parenting and Mothering is hard work, but we all make mistakes along the way. Tell 5 reasons why you are a great mother. Then tell 5 reasons why someone might call CPS on you.
Top 5 reasons why I am a great mother :
5. I let my children know every day how much I love them, and provide lots of hugs and cuddling time.
4. I am patient with them, and I am supportive of them, but I don’t force them to continue with something just because they “signed up”.
3. I read the same books, over and over, even though I’m tired of them. I also listen to long drawn out stories that might have only taken an adult 10 seconds to tell, but in actuality took about 10 minutes. LOL
2. I will provide for and protect them at ALL costs and they know this whole heartedly.
1. As they get older they will always know that NO MATTER WHAT, they can always come to me.
Top 5 reasons why someone may call CPS on me:
5. My son’s first novelty t-shirt was from a trip to Hooters. (yes at only 3 months old!)
4. I’ve let them watch PG-13 and R rated movies and guess what *gasp* they aren’t even 13 yet!!
3. I let them watch people play “fighting” video games (they just aren’t allowed to play them yet!)
2. I let them watch as much TV as they want.
1. I don’t restrict their sugar intake in a day – yep that means if they ask for 3 cookies, and then immediately ask for some candy, they usually get it. (aren’t I horrible?!?!)
Take care – until next time!! See ya here!
Nicole
By Nicole Humphrey Cook
It’s absolutely crazy but in some ways I am cringing about school starting.
I really enjoy having my little herd of five home with me everyday. In fact, when even a couple of them are gone for more than a few hours it’s totally different around the house.
What is that sound? Oh wait – it’s silence. But it’s a sad and lonely silence, and I know that it will get worse when school resumes.
For us, school starts in a week – yes I said a week. Our three youngest go back to school next Thursday the 20th. We have year round school here in our Elementary schools and their summer break is about to come to an end. However, in only two short months they’ll be off for a couple of weeks again.
Several years ago my son did one year in this district and I hated it. There were several reasons for it, but I just didn’t like it.
Now I am thrilled. The idea of having them for large amounts of time in chunks is perfectly ok with me.
Of course, we also have two in middle school this year. They are not in a year round school and do not have typical cycle breaks. Theirs are done by quarters. They finish first quarter, they get a week off. They finish second quarter they get another week off….and so on.
Yes, it doesn’t sound so great at times, when you realize that the younger ones will be off without the older ones, and the older ones will probably dislike having to go to school when the others do not. But in a lot of ways it’s a good thing for us.
A little special time with the younger ones is necessary. The older ones get an extra month before school starts to spend special time.
With one week left until school, I guess I better get school supply shopping. Need to get all those great first day of school supplies, and of course that Back to School outfit I’ve done every year.
Ah well, it will be here soon and I will be faced with more time on my hands than I know what to do with. I guess then I will get more articles written, have much more time to scrapbook and read, and the house will probably be a lot cleaner….
But I bet I’ll be lonelier than I have in months!
When does school start in your neck of the woods?

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